This is the trailer of my story.. I’m a girl with many dreams, to earn, to travel, have new experiences, explore life,
..and when it comes true reality tofulfill them I need to fight with an evil called “society”.
Here starts the main story..
When Istarted earning, i thought that now i can really make my dreams true and started noting downeverything has been listed and started saving money for what i have been planning since my childhood, and i was very happy and excited about thefuture plans.
Then there comes a 7.3 scale degree earthquake which is my 7 steps and 3 knots of license in a girl’s life..
Where people say ‘life and god has other plans in store for you..!’ guess what?? the same thing happened with me..
As I’ve just turned24 and my parents are planning to tossme out of my home in the name of marriage.
My dad, my only hero, has startedplanning for a budget and keeps repeating every day ofthe expenses that
are flying highand shallbe renderedon my wedding. Pilingup the money from banks, selling landsjust to comfort and entertain people whom i never knew or merely seen, andso called our relatives who pay attention uponspending out our half of the life’s earnings just to make them happy and isexactly what my parents called it a ‘STATUS’ in the society.
My mom, my best friend started chanting the mantras of how to be a ideal ‘Bahu’ atmy mother in-law’s home(whom i don’t know yet), and giving me classes as to how to cook, how to respect elders, how to behavewhen relatives visitsto your place, how to smile and not tolaugh loud when you are with eldersand the list goes on and on and on..
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And, when I said, I was not ready yet for the marriage and briefed, i have so many things to attain in respects of career and goals in my onlylife and where I shallbe strong and healthy for a span of10 years to embrace in this current hybridized world.. There i dropped an atomic bomb same as in like tragic Hiroshima and Nagasaki incident!!
Soon, it’s Time for an interrogation!!!!!
“Do you have a boyfriend???”
I replied, “no.. I just want to live my life the way i have been planning and i think, i still need time to bound in a new relationship with newresponsibilities.”
“Are you in love???”
My answer was “no”. Of course, when my answer for thepast onewas “no”, then this will be a big “no” tooright??
There my mom started crying and utters, why do you say you are not ready yet for marriage?? You just wantto do big things because you aregrown up now?? She was not happy with the fact that as to how her daughter isnot excited about the marriage unlike other girls of her age. Yet she began cursing upon saying “I don’tknow why and what we have done and we got children like you ?”
I heard it all, felt so bad and was in a shock until she finished her talks and I kept my mouth shut.
Just in few lines my mom finished her definition of a Girl’s life like, to get married, give birth to children,raise them, take care of them and her family.. that’s all, there she concluded alife of a GIRL.
After the questionnaire.. I could only feellike ‘rubsalt intomy wounds and stay dumbstruck..Then the only solution i have is——-!!!!!!’
Will meet you soon…